Dr. Rob and Tami talk about why a family might put all the focus and blame on the betrayed spouse and not look at the actual family member (their son or daughter who is the one struggling with the addiction) to put their anger and disappointment on. Dr. Rob shares a bit of a reminder that you’re working with a broken family unit and they will lash out in unhealthy ways to cope.    TAKEAWAYS: [:25] How do I concentrate and retain information better?  [7:15] It might be beneficial to see if you’re diagnosed with ADHD.  [7:30] How do I deal with my addict’s family? They blame me!  [16:40] Why do these parents know so much about your personal sex life? Find a therapist!  [18:00] What does a one-on-one look like with Dr. Rob? [21:20] Thank you so much for sending in your answers!    RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss