Dr. Rob and Tami share their thoughts on how to best approach the conversation with your sex addict partner who might be oblivious that they have an addiction. In same-sex male relationships, casual sex is prominent, and it can be very difficult to differentiate between what is a healthy relationship vs. an unhealthy one. Is it even possible? Dr. Rob knows it is and has been the only person to write in-depth on the nuances of these same-sex relationships among sex addicts.   TAKEAWAYS: [:30] I’ve been married for 30 years and I think my husband finally gets it, but I’m not even ready to have him see me naked. Is this trauma? [2:15] You’re not alone in these feelings! Seek a support group and keep working with a therapist. [5:45] My husband thinks celibacy isn’t normal. Is this true? I’m a betrayed spouse and he still watches porn. [8:00] My wife has asked for a divorce. I’ve started to masturbate again. I feel like I’ve ruined my recovery. How can I move forward? [10:10] Recovery is how we learn to do life differently. [16:00] Nothing in your life is ruined! [16:15] How can I talk to my spouse about sex addiction? [22:15] Dr. Rob is the only person who has written about how sex addiction affects the gay community. [24:45] When should I believe my addict? How can I really trust her again?   RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss