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I Don’t Trust My Addict Husband
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Length:
27 minutes
Released:
Apr 28, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Dr. Rob and Tami talk about what to do when you’ve caught your addict watching some really uncomfortable and ethically questionable porn. They also discuss how betrayed spouses can move through grief and forgiveness in a healthy way without holding on to resentment. All this and more in this week’s episode! TAKEAWAYS: [:35] Caught my husband watching incest porn. What do I do? [2:15] You need to find a specialist in this field and not a general therapist. [3:40] I’ve lost a lot. As the betrayed partner, I’m going through grief, how do I forgive? [6:10] Where are you in the stages of forgiveness? It takes time to grieve and forgive. [9:00] My husband has been sober for 2 years, but I still don’t trust him. [13:30] The opposite of love is not hate. If you still love them, you’re passionately engaged. Opposite of love is indifference. [15:15] If you leave, do the work you need to do to heal. [17:00] How important is community as part of your recovery process? [20:15] You need to lean into others to find true healing. [22:15] Finding the right home group is much like dating. [25:20] Is it normal for sex addicts to be exhibitists? RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss
Released:
Apr 28, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
I Can’t Undo the Past But This Is How I’m Going to Right the Ship: In this episode, Dr. Rob and Tami talk about focusing on your internal recovery first before seeking to make peace with your spouses. It’s important to face your truth, build on your recovery journey, and build emotional resilience to manage... by Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction