Dr. Rob and Tami understand that being with a sex addict for years can be hard to accept. They answer a question from a betrayed spouse who has been separated from her partner for over three years, and still sees no progress in his addiction despite him going to CSAT meetings. What should she do? Dr. Rob and Tami also answer a question on what good and healthy couples therapy looks like, and what they should do prior to going into a session in this week’s episode.    TAKEAWAYS: [0:30] My addict says he has the same feelings for me as he does the affair partner. What the hell does that mean?  [4:40] I am having sexual performance issues with my partner. What can I do?  [8:15] When Dr. Rob got sober from drugs, he didn’t want to have sex at all.  [10:00] My husband, who I am separated from, still acts out. What can I do? [15:10] My spouse wants me to attend men-only meetings. The ones I go to are working, what do I do?  [19:15] What does couple’s therapy look like? [23:15] My wife wants a divorce and I am struggling to show up for her. How can I show her I care about her?    RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss