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What’s the Difference Between Letting Go and Forgiveness?
What’s the Difference Between Letting Go and Forgiveness?
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Length:
30 minutes
Released:
Nov 17, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Dr. Rob and Tami discuss the difference between letting go and forgiving someone who has deeply hurt and betrayed you. Forgiveness is much like grief and it comes in waves, one day you think you’re doing alright and ready to move on, the next, you’re having a hard time getting up off the floor. If you’re a betrayed spouse, you’re not alone in these feelings. Dr. Rob sheds light on how “letting go” vs. “forgiving” works, in this week’s episode. TAKEAWAYS: [1:00] Why does my husband still have slips? [5:20] With his permission, I read my partner’s “Out of the Doghouse” workbook. I’m extremely angry. Should I have done that? [11:25] How can I make amends after 18 years of betrayal? [18:10] My husband’s SA therapist passed away suddenly. He’s made so much progress in his recovery, I am grief-stricken by this loss. Any advice? [24:35] Is letting go different than forgiveness? RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss
Released:
Nov 17, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
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