Dr. Rob and Tami answer a question from an addict that is struggling with their own narcissism. Can this condition truly be cured? In this episode, Dr. Rob and Tami explain what a narcissist is and why so many people in recovery have narcissistic traits and qualities.   TAKEAWAYS: [:45] How do you work with narcissists? [3:35] Dr. Rob explains how you can work on breaking out of your narcissistic mold. [5:30] Part of recovery is being 100% honest. If you’re honest, your narcissism will get better. [7:55] During the early stage of recovery, many addicts focus on their own pain and not on the pain they’ve caused others. [11:50] There is a very insecure and hurt person under every narcissist. [13:15] Dr. Rob, what is your take on same-sex couples going through a betrayal? How does “Out of the Doghouse” apply in this case? [23:00] Entitlement is an indicator of a narcissistic trait. [23:55] A lot of narcissists are stunted emotionally. [24:25] Addiction is your friend. Your addiction makes you a better person. Dr. Rob explains how. [25:20] I’m furious with my addict and he doesn’t understand why. How can we move forward?   RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss