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I’m so Freaking Angry at Him. How Could My Addict Hurt Me Like This?
I’m so Freaking Angry at Him. How Could My Addict Hurt Me Like This?
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Length:
31 minutes
Released:
Apr 29, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Dr. Rob and Tami talk about how you can process your hurt and anger after you’ve found out about your spouse’s infidelity and addiction. When Tami began her recovery journey, she also had to process a lot of angry emotions and she discovered that it was triggering hidden abandonment wounds. Your initial emotions might not be what they seem, and Tami offers advice on how you can dive deeper within yourself to help process the pain. TAKEAWAYS: [:35] The cheating is now just gone to porn masturbation. Is this still cheating? [1:40] Tami shares her thoughts on harm reduction. [4:20] How does Dr. Rob define sex addiction? [6:30] At the end of the day, what do you want? There’s a clear line on what sobriety is. [6:50] As a betrayed spouse, I’m mad at so much. How can I process this? [10:45] What is “brain spotting”? [11:55] Whenever my SA husband touches me, I feel sick to my stomach. How do I fix this? [16:30] Should I tell our respective family members about my addiction? They know my wife has been depressed. [24:05] Is commitment phobia connected with sex addiction? [28:20] How easy is it for someone to get over a 50-year addiction? RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss
Released:
Apr 29, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode
Titles in the series (100)
My Betrayed Partner Keeps Threatening Divorce: In this episode, Dr. Rob and Tami answer questions around betrayal trauma and how to help your betrayed partner find safety. They invite you to read Dr. Rob’s books, listen to podcasts, join support groups and workshops to not only work on your... by Overcoming Betrayal & Addiction