Dr. Rob and Tami are not surprised by some people’s behavior, especially when they’re deep in their addiction. A betrayed spouse writes in saying her SA husband does not want to reconcile. He blames her for her monogamy and the feminist agenda for corrupting her and causing him to act out. Can a CSAT help a man like this? Dr. Rob and Tami answer her painful question.   TAKEAWAYS: [:30] When can we have sex again? [3:10] Don’t have sex with anyone you don’t trust. [6:10] My SA husband is sexually sober. We’re working through it but I still get triggered. What should I do? [11:55] Dr. Rob wrote a book from a woman’s perspective on how infidelity hurts them differently than it does a man. [15:25] We are trying to reintroduce intimacy. How can we best do that? Should he still have sexual feelings while practicing celibacy? [21:40] My husband blames me for my monogamy and won’t repair our marriage. [25:50] You need to advocate for yourself.   RESOURCES: Seekingintegrity.com Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com Sexandrelationshiphealing.com Intherooms.com Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating, by Robert Weiss Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency, by Robert Weiss Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction, by Robert Weiss Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men, by Robert Weiss