In this week’s episode, Barb and Michelle talk about the #1 habit they are trying to break in their relationships…and it might surprise you!  Follow us @MichelleMaros and @Peaceful_Barb and share your experiences with us @BarbKnowsBestPod or at https://kite.link/barb-knows-best.   Episode Notes: The desire we have to change other human beings is natural. A person isn’t going to change unless they truly want to. You can’t love someone out of their mindset or beliefs. People will always do what they want to do, what they feel driven to do and what matters to them.        Make a realistic decision on where this person or people fit into your life based on who they are and not on who you wish they could be.                    Have a connection with yourself to know who you are, what you want, and what you value. Be able to communicate these values with your loved ones. Ask yourself are you okay with this? Are you okay with how a person may feel or think differently than you do about a situation? Focus on the things you can control. Give people a chance to transform themselves by themselves. Use your energy and time and your precious resources to speak up and speak out and do what matters most to you.