"Let go of all the things that could have been, and then focus on all the things that still can be, that you still can be and do and become.”In this solo episode, host Kate Volman shares a powerful message from Matthew Kelly's book, "Life is Messy,” which is mourning the life that could have been.Join as Kate encourages us to release any regrets or past decisions that weigh us down, and challenges us to focus on their dreams and aspirations. This thought-provoking discussion invites us to explore our potential for growth and self-discovery.In this episode, you’ll learn:Embrace the unexpected life by mourning the life that could have beenDon't fear the past; let it serve you, but don't let it define youFocus on creating the future you still can be, do, and becomeThings to listen for:[01:29] Mourn the life that could’ve been[03:21] Glance at the past, but don't linger there[08:42] Journaling releases power, challenge to let go[10:26] Simplify powerful ideas