Michael explores the concept of dealing with personal disasters and catastrophes. The episode begins by acknowledging the natural inclination to question why these bad things happen to us, but emphasises the importance of not remaining in a victim mindset. Michael shares personal experiences and highlights the need to let go of the past, take responsibility for one's actions, and find meaning and growth in the face of adversity. Drawing inspiration from individuals like Viktor Frankl, Helen Keller, and Harriet Tubman, the episode showcases how our worst experiences can ultimately lead to personal triumph and positive change. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS

Bad experiences are a part of life that happen to everyone, not just a select few. It is natural to wonder why these things happen, but dwelling on the question of "why me?" only keeps you locked in a victim mentality.
Instead of focusing on the past and asking why something happened, it is more empowering to ask yourself what you can learn from the experience and what meaning you should attribute to it. Your thoughts, feelings, and actions in the present are what truly matter and determine your future outcomes.
While horrendous experiences can be devastating, it is important to consider that they may have the potential to positively change you or lead to something beneficial. With time and distance, you may be able to perceive some benefits or growth that resulted from the experience.
History is filled with examples of individuals who triumphed over adversity and did not allow their circumstances to define them. People like Viktor Frankl, Helen Keller, and Harriet Tubman achieved great things despite facing horrific challenges. This shows that our worst experiences do not have to define us if we choose to grow and change.
Reflecting on our experiences in the long term can help us appreciate that some things happen for our benefit, even if we don't realise it at the time. Our worst experiences can lead to personal growth, a change in perspective, or the development of resilience. It is only in hindsight that we may recognise the positive impact these experiences had on our lives.

BEST MOMENTS
"Asking yourself that kind of question is fine if you want to remain in a woe-is-me-like state of mind, but not if you want to get over it and make the most of your life." 
"You have to get to a point in life where you begin to weigh up what's helping you to progress from what's holding you back." 
"Instead of asking yourself the question of why this happened to you, a more empowering question would be to ask, what can I learn from what happened to me?" 
"The above-named people are examples of people who triumphed despite the huge odds stacked against them, proving that our bad or worst experiences are not what defines us."
"So my worst or close to the worst experience of my life, the experience that caused me so much pain and distress, has resulted in me being able to not only give evidence very well, but also help others to do the same thing."
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HOST BIO
Michael Watson is a qualified social worker and author with over thirty years of experience working with children and families. As an expert in family court, Michael is in a key position to assist, advise, and coach parents through their private law family proceedings and provide them with the information and skills to represent themselves successfully in court. His two books, ‘How to Represent Yourself in Family Court’, and ‘FAMILY COURT: Giving Evidence In Family Court’, provide parents with a clearer understanding of family court proceedings, legislation, and parenting skills.