There are many conversations about ways to find inner peace, and it’s this time of the year, the holiday season, where our inner peace is a focus. It’s something that we want, and yet it’s rocked by the experiences that we have. If we do not have a healthy family life, if we do not have a healthy boundary around our schedule and time, we can be lacking in peace. Today’s Mindset Reset, Tiffany S wrote in and asked: “Danielle, I have heard you talk about the need to relinquish control and let go of the fight, but I’m not going to lie to you. Sometimes, I feel like doing so makes me a pushover or a doormat. I’m worried the people around me will abuse me because they know that I’m just going to let it go. I heard you also say that we want to get into a place where we’re surrendering, but again, that makes me feel like self-respect and self-love are not possible for me if I live in both spaces. Can you help explain—maybe I’m looking at it wrong? Tiffany, that’s a really great question. I can see the confusion. Let’s break down what finding and feeling inner peace means and how boundaries must be involved! 00:02:56 If we do not have firm boundaries, then we will always struggle with feeling like a doormat, 00:04:16 Understanding boundaries and how they relate to peace   07:51 Know your definition of peace. 00:08:11 Inner peace is a selective action—a choice 0:08:55 Be selective with who has access to your energy 00:10:05 Tune in to your nervous system 00:11:05 Don’t over-explain yourself 00:13:58 Where inner peace and boundaries collide and empower you Love this mindset reset and want to keep the inspiration and conversation going? Send your request to getyourlifetogethergirlnow@gmail.com. Join the 25 K members on Instagram, Facebook, and Tik Tok who are engaging in their own life revolution daily. Like this show? Please leave us a review here – even one sentence helps! Also, please post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Sign up for the Get Your Life Together, Girl Insider Email here! Still looking for more? Visit: www.getyourlifetogethergirl.com and the Get Your Life Together, Girl personal development blog. Join THE GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, GIRL COMMUNITY.  Sign up for the NEW GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER, GIRL WOMEN’S CIRCLE MEMBERSHIP! CHECK OUT www.getyourlifetogethergirl.com/womens-circle for more information.