A massive part of our overall life satisfaction comes down to the quality of our relationships, especially our most intimate ones. So often, women find themselves dissatisfied, overwhelmed, and feeling as if their partner does not meet their needs. When this occurs, life can feel as if it is lacking in passion, purpose, play, and genuine connection. This week we’re taking our intimate relationships to increase our overall satisfaction in and out of the bedroom with Relationships Expert and Love Coach Gaby Sundra. When we lack passion, intimacy, and relationship goals, our mindset and personal drive can become stunted. This is an adult-only conversation just due to its nature, but it’s filled with tips and tools to uplevel your relationship play, enjoyment, and connection. As Gaby says, “We’re keeping the fights clean and the sex dirty!” Key Takeaways: 00:00 Introduction 01:48 Gabby is the Love Trifecta Coach—meeting each other’s needs in our love relationship 03:19 OCC: The elements of blaming, complaining, and shaming 04:44 How a reset summit can serve your relationship & the words, “Did I show up for you today?” 07:11 Loving by design and not default 09:35 The Love Trifecta: play, peace, and passion 12:12 The number one mistake we make is putting our relationship on autopilot or on the backburner 13:36 Intimacy is key to any relationship, and it goes beyond sex 16:17 Get to know your partner’s love language and honoring the space, word, and needs of your beloved 19:11 What was present at the beginning that is missing now? 20:21 We must model intimacy 24:09 Taking the negativity off the table and putting goals in place for our couple’s culture to thrive 27:35 We cannot make others accountable for our happiness and self-ownership 29:00 Marriage generally ends because of a million small things, not the big – removing the negativity 32:41 Know your partner’s fight and communication styles so you can be in alignment with one another – consent is key 34:00 Allowing the “so-so” moments 37:32 Caring about your beloved needs but not giving up your own needs 41:41 Intentionality in relationships is necessary 44:31 Upset is often a need that is not becoming met or communicated correctly 46:43 Take time to have a needs meeting to help you make sure both people are meeting their personal needs—this is a massive piece of trust 49:15 Keeping the romance alive removes the “roommate” vibe that many marriages survive within 52:44 Small shifts create significant changes—start with creating a vision for your relationship 54:54 Needs are not demands 56:40 What to do right NOW that will help increase your enjoyment 58:00 Uncovering Your Love Language 59:21 Gabby’s three things Relationships don’t have to be so much work. They can be pure empowerment when we add the trifecta that Gabby so beautifully taught alongside the other tools that make loving fun.  You don’t want to miss the free offerings Gabby mentioned. Again, you can find the free downloads at www.forbetter.love/girl   If you would like to work with Gabby and rekindle your relationship you can find information at www.forbetter.love/meet. I hope you enjoyed this episode…Be sure to tune in on Tuesday and Thursday of each when new episodes of the Get Your Life Together, Girl Podcast is released. If you are looking for daily inspiration, join the growing community @getyourlifetogethergirl on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and visit getyourlifetogethergirl.com for additional videos, blogs, and upcoming events. Thank you for listening and being a valuable part of this community and please don’t leave a review as it helps spread this message to others who may need it…. until next time…be kind to yourself and others.