Let’s talk with Leilah of A Stripper’s Guide about privacy issues and safety, queerness at the stripclub, and listen as she gives tips on setting boundaries and maintaining a healthier relationship with partners and self.3:00 she works night shifts for a few reasons7:00 curious but condescending 10:00 plz don’t ask her about her sex life12:00 “gold star lesbian” discussion15:00 on the asexuality spectrum: demisexual18:00 artificial intelligence 24:00 feeling shame vs seeking privacy28:00 I identify with the slutty-looking girl33:00 private about her sex life 37:00 on sounding polite while setting boundaries42:00 image impacting income 45:00 on seeming available 47:00 non-sexual methods of partner bonding53:00 on feeling touched-out 1:00:00 book recommendations Find our guest at astrippersguide.com and IG @asg.headquartersListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)