4:00 Lack of sexuality training with sex workers 7:30 sex addiction type treatment is shaming of people 9:40 why “sex addiction” is not an accurate term11:00 your body doesn’t withdraw from lack of sex, and can’t OD on sex19:00 trauma and attachment 20:00 non-monogamy 25:00 sex positivity includes body positivity Fetishes, poly, kinky, sex workers, disability, queer, asexual all need to be included in sex therapy27:00 what sex-positive really means29:00 asexuality is real 31:00 conversion “therapy”36:00 How to share a trauma story with partners40:00 porn doesn't make people violent47:00 relational trauma is common 51:00 what is digisesxuality?53:00 what is chemsex?60:00 how to surf your emotions71:00 monogamy is a christian concept