Nate Hazen is a certified bouncer in the state of Oregon and works in downtown Portland. Meet your host’s coworker and listen as we swap stories and tips on how to be safer and more fun as a patron of the adult entertainment industries.2:00 could you work in a strip club with the lights and loud music?6:00 felons, veterans, and foster system kids9:00 de-escalation and working downtown Portland 12:00 on men who shouldn’t be bouncers15:00 some people have intent to be malicious22:00 basic etiquette for beginners and all25:00 don’t come in the club w/o money28:00 on no-touching rules31:00 DTF = down to fuck, btw 35:00 on tip-out being unfair 40:00 where my dogs at?44:00 maybe a tv show about portland strippers?48:00  death and grief in the industry53:00 on being street smart and vigilant57:00 don’t hit on the dancers when you work with them1:00:00 pay attention to when you feel shame——————Find your guest on IG @natehazen and @stripcitytv Find your guest’s OF on onlyfans.com/johnny_bananaFind your host on IG @stripperwriter @elle_stanger @theytalksexpodcastFind your host on Twitter @ellestanger Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comSponsored by Kimono Microthin Condoms - use 20MICROTHIN for 20% off your AMAZON purchase before June 27th, ‘23Sponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)