Our guest Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah collected the stories of African women from all over the globe for years in a blog before she released her book on “self-discovery, freedom, and healing”. We discuss gender, power, feminism, people, and shame.2:00 meet your guest5:00  genital reconfiguration for pleasure or mutilation8:00 stories of self discovery11:00 on libido in middle age14:00 child sexual abuse 17:00 on abortion in places where it is illegal21:00 medical professional and race25:00 how to unlearn feelings of guilt29:00 it takes a village to raise a child34:00 why are some young men so rushed during sex?37:00 on anxiety and rushing and violence42:00 the hungry vagina concept 45:00 kink and polyamorous people can experience discrimination 47:00 when marriage is revered50:00 a cliteral sex tip