What are your personal ethics around sex work and matrimony? Why do some people share their interactions with spouses and other people hide them? How to support your partner in sex work? Is it cheating to pay for services? Let’s discuss this with a happily married sex worker, Jessie Sage.1:00 a spicy viral twitter post4:00 cancer, and caregiver roles7:00 what work she’s done in sex10:00 feedback from her clients14:00 a public-facing nonbinary spouse18:00 on blaming the sex worker22:00 oral sex or we aren’t getting married26:00 helping sex lives of other spouses29:00 disclosing to your family that you’re dating a sex worker34:00 keep it simple and name what is happening39:00 besties who get weird around SW44:00 outsiders and misunderstanding 48:00 addressing their shame 51:00 how to be a supportive partner article56:00 @thotscholar, Lorelei Lee writing recommendation Find our guest on JessieSage.com and Twitter.com/SaptiotextualListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)