What can it mean to be kinky and how can we play more safely and creatively? Domina Franco M.Ed has two decades of experience and gives advice and info about kink play and trauma. 4:00 what is kink? 8:00 how some types of play and relationships are pathologized 12:00 on being a joyful sadist and human furniture 20:00 slut play 28:00 a theory on why some people love submission32:00 Consensual Non-consent play or “rape role play”40:00 how to screen for safer dominant partners45:00 topping is a sacred responsibility54:00 mint green bandanas mean mommy kink1:00:00 book recommendations on kink and BDSM