On being a Black sex educator who advocates for HIV prevention, sex toy exploration and straightforward communication. Ashley Cobb from Atlanta, Georgia offers straightforward and candid input on common questions.1:00 began teaching sex ed in 20155:00 she thinks redheads are cute9:00 38 vs early 20’s11:00 pRep for Black women14:00 raw sex equals pregnancy or STIs17:00 syphilis and COVID going up why?21:00 why to have sex before you get married24:00 why insecure men might prefer sexually inexperienced women27:00 how often should I get screened?31:00 when one of you wants to have sex more often34:00 ways to be intimate without PIV37:00 ethical porn discussion42:00 more anal tips for newbies45:00 small penis tips and use your hands48:00 on “sex-negative feminism”53:00 Somaya Critchlow art discussion56:00 what’s next for her?Find out guest on IG @sexwithashleyListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)