Let’s get elbow deep in complex topics like kink, neurodiversity, trauma healing and trans gender issues. Writer cosima bee concordia aka “Bimbo Theory” joins me here and you can find her on Patreon too.Timestamps:1:00 her new IG is @bimbo.theory3:00 what is kink?7:00 ADHD and sluggish cognitive tempo9:00 lists and timers can be helpful for ADHD13:00 moral panic around trans people 15:00 informed consent models18:00 on “pegging the patriarchy”22:00 Greek men had rules for how they were allowed to have anal sex25:00 on pegging30:00 I want leather education!33:00 BDSM book recommendation - “Leathersex”36:00 blood play and risk40:00 submissives and service-topping45:00 nicknames and pet names49:00 r*pe-role play 53:00 eroticized taboos56:00 examples of many types of kink play59:00 resources for cis people dating newly-transitioned folks