Why do some people pay others to teach them how to be sexual and intimate? Surrogate partners work with clients to learn their bodies and how to have consensual, boundaried, erotic contact with others. Brandon of AmpersandIntimacy expands on our previous episode about surrogate partner therapy, and the benefits and barriers to these treatments.3:00 gaming and play, kink and sex6:00 previously he was a clinician9:00 on people who aren’t listening to my boundaries13:00 who his clients typically are16:00 on why people pay for sexual touch22:00 not being distracted or disturbed24:00 hygiene requests27:00 scheduled sex for couples29:00 on over-regulation33:00 client-rejection 37:00 being mean to push me away 41:00 sex therapy is historically for white hetero men46:00 what is Upnegotiating and how to avoid it?48:00 some people test things52:00 tell me your boundaries PLZ58:00 sex tips View our guest at ampersandintimacy.comListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)