Tom-boys, dykes, butch females, masc4masc, men, and more: how do nonbinary , cis men, and masculine-leaning people experience our world? It’s a spectrum of intersectionality! We speak with one person about gender, licensed sex therapist Grace Ballard.2:00 Classic psychotherapy vs Buddhist psychotherapy 4:00 some people love to be disruptive to others8:00 on OCSB (out-of control sexual behavior)13:00 playful, competitive, aggressive, touching = the gym16:00 legitimacy in the workplace19:00 work clothing is performative21:00 how do you express your gender?25:00 how does Elle express femininity for swork?29:00 on gender and power play33:00 masc people report boundary pushing too37:00 on street harassment40:00 take a woman-centered approach?43:00 on sexual functioning for men47:00 men and women need each other 53:00 demonizing masculinity prevents people from being truly healthy55:00 homophobia robs men of healthy touch59:00 diversify your touch1:03:00 break all the fashion rules1:06:00 resources: Doug Braun-Harvey, Liz Plank and moreSponsored by OpenEasier.com - research based non-monogamy resources.Find your host on ellestanger.com See my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)