Ep 204: Slutty Activism and Pleasure with Sex & Dating Coach Sarah Martin.  Sex and Dating Coach Sarah Martin joined me to discuss slutty activism, being a dignified hedonist, and pleasure. She helps people build dream relationships, gives dating and hookup advice, and helps people communicate better and more efficiently. She's a podcaster at the Slutty Activism Podcast so you can listen to her show on podcast apps.We had an amazingly epic conversation! It was fabulous! We talked about how we should all focus on pleasure, live a life led by our desires, and about female dating strategy. We discussed how we all receive toxic messaging from society and how society demonizes sex, sexuality, and pleasure. We talked about how inadequate our sex education is in America. She gave ideas and suggestions about how to combat fascism even on a small level in our own lives. We can practice connecting with others and connecting with pleasure in our lives, thereby making us more present. We chatted about how big powers try to make us feel isolated and control us all via social media, what is allowed culturally, on websites, and what isn't, and how this is not benign, but highly intentional.We talked about how sexual communities are all around us and we should not feel alone in seeking out sexual lifestyle alternatives, and once we start to seek these communities and experiences, we will see we are definitely not alone. There are communities everywhere, but we are made blind to them by society. So go out and seek what you want!We talked about jealousy versus envy in relationships as well as jealousy versus compersion, and how this also works in ENM.We also talked about sex toy usage, masturbation, and the death grip phenomena in self-pleasuring. To connect with Sarah, visit here: Listen to the Slutty Activism Podcast: https://slutty-activism.captivate.fm/listenJoin the Union of Slutty Activists: http://sluttyactivism.com/Check Out the Slutty Activism Podcast Community: http://sluttyactivism.group/More from Sarah: https://dignifiedhedonist.com/linksFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/dignifiedhedonistTwitter: https://twitter.com/HedonistDatingInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dignified.hedonist/All Sarah's links:https://dignifiedhedonist.com/links/?fbclid=PAAaZyyYQcF_T4CRpOe4I9EJPvW3JHLaCDKIKj71Oe0v4y9X8LgcNbvp2lQ9oConnect with host Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowCheck out Ruan's new audiobook Magic In Her Kisses: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680You can be a part of the launch team and listen and review for free: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/5e1774ee-eb31-43e2-b855-2d1c41167adfSupport the show