Ep 438: In this tantalizing episode, Ruan welcomes sex coach extraordinaire Lee Jagger, CEO and founder of Rock the Bedroom. Lee has transformed the lives of thousands of women by empowering them with her signature erotic massage techniques, helping them to forge deeper connections with their partners and ignite confidence in the bedroom. **VIDEO version airing on PodNation TV on 5/1/2024**Lee and Ruan explore the misconceptions surrounding erotic massage, revealing that it's so much more than a mere hand job. It's a journey of slow, sensual exploration that can include the entire body, with over 69 techniques that a man simply can't perform on himself. Lee shares her personal story of transformation from being homeless to becoming a beacon of sensual empowerment for women everywhere.The discussion delves into the importance of playtime (not just foreplay), the art of communication, and the power of treating your partner like royalty. Lee emphasizes that when it comes to touching, men crave the sensation of being desired, and she challenges women to touch their partners like they love it, transforming obligatory acts into moments of genuine pleasure.Lee also shares valuable insights on how these techniques can enhance sexual experiences for men with erection challenges, offering alternatives to intercourse that still provide deep satisfaction. And for the singles out there, Lee discusses how these skills can boost confidence in the dating world, attracting partners who will cherish and respect them.Don't miss this episode that's as informative as it is steamy, it could save your relationship. Lee Jagger's advice is life changing.Website: https://www.rockthebedroom.comPodcast: https://rockthebedroompodcast.buzzsprout.comIG: https://www.instagram.com/rockthebedroom/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rockthebedroomEpisode Chapters(02:45) The journey from homelessness to empowering women in the bedroom(05:20) Understanding the true essence of erotic massage(08:15) The power of confidence in the bedroom and its ripple effect on relationships(08:26) Is that why you became a sex coach for women?(09:41) When I started erotic massage, my boyfriend couldn't even get an erection(14:56) Our sex ed in America is so focused on reproduction(11:02) The importance of intimacy and connection beyond intercourse(13:40) Addressing the challenges of single women and the importance of self-worth in dating(16:25) Communication in the bedroom(18:50) Importance of touching your partner with genuine desire and love(29:48) Prefer the term playtime over foreplay(38:55) Women often assume that flaccid penis doesn't do anything(58:32) One thing men really wish that women knew about touching a man's body(01:02:19) When you have control in the bedroom, you have the best sexRuan's books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/Hotwife books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/hotwifebook Support the Show.Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUAN at https://www.manscaped.com/