Have you ever seen healthcare providers who have no idea what you are experiencing personally? Lucie Fielding is a therapist, sex educator and writer who saw the gaps in healthcare and the biases against trans people by their providers, and works to share info and insight about better clinical approaches to trans sexuality.2:00 a clarifying anger6:00 I want clients/people to feel lovable9:00 psychoanalysis was designed to be intensive13:00 what does Yes and No feel like in the body?17:00 “these poor people”20:00 what is anti-trans sensationalism23:00 how people are misled to believe transphobia28:00 what is muffing?31:00 balls and labia are homologous tissue35:00 https://fuckingtranswomen.org/37:00 what are puberty blockers?40:00 kids choosing their own identity prevents self harm44:00 “ambivalence is essential to the change process”47:00 top surgery and boob jobs52:00 I need help with asking how to name their parts!55:00 how do we name our parts?59:00 what is Project 2025?1:05:00 what’s next for Lucie?Find our guest LucieFielding.comFind your host Ellestanger.comListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)