Our guest is a non-judgemental therapy intern, sometimes-sex worker, cannabis educator, and sexuality educator. Danielle Simpson-Baker’s work is for couples and singles, and we offer practical advice for people trying to manage and repair relationship conflicts.3:00 therapy, sexology, cannabis education and sw6:00 whorephobia in academia and how we are fighting it9:00 experience in full-service, with privilege 13:00 representation as a Black woman 16:00 things ppl don’t want to tell their therapist YET20:00 more therapist-shaming, on cannabis and porn27:00 how to reconnect after a partner-conflict?30:00 on non-sexual bonding first, after a conflict33:00 how to help a partner with shame36:00 porn and comedians perpetuate false messages39:00 sensate focus therapy practice43:00 on grief and sexuality45:00 feeling guilty about pleasure after a death 48:00 talking about a taboo desire52:00 hate mail can be hilarious56:00 on privilege despite doing illegal sex work59:00 “turning toward” makes better relationships1:02:00 @cptsdwhisperer is nonbinary, to clarify1:06:00 Dr Lex Brown - resource + recommendation1:09:00 on going down*Thanks to our sponsor Beducated.com - get 40% off courses and sex ed and pleasure videos and practice sheets, with code: http://beducate.me/pd2244-elle