Who else has ADHD? Our guest noticed a lack of sexuality-related info for people with attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder. For two decades he has served people who need help with dating, sex, self-care and relating. Let’s learn and laugh with therapist and author Ari Tuckman.3:00 he wrote the books because there was a lack of help for ADHD-ers5:00 a lot of mental health and medical pros have little or no sex education7:00 he gravitates to people with ADHD10:00 how does ADHD make dating hard for you?14:00 more examples19:00 people-pleasing behaviors25:00 maintaining interest after novelty wanes30:00 ADHD and staying in the mood 34:00 moving on after oopsies37:00 other tips for re-directing your attention41:00 more ways that ADHD can show up during sex44:00 one study about ADHD people and sex49:00 quirky can be charming or annoying, truly 55:00 medication and sleep questionFind our guest on AdultADHDbook.comListen on Podurama!Write to Elle about the show theytalksex@protonmail.comDon’t sleep in the wet spot! Use code ELLE for 10% off GETTHELAYER.COMSponsored by JoliQuiz.com - for smarter relationship-openingSee my $1 subscriber material Patreon.com/strangebedfellowsPlease rate and review this podcast :)