Ejaculation issues, stamina, performance anxiety, aggression and shame, learn from Australia’s leading male sexologist Cam Fraser on how to have a better and more ethical sex life.3:00 - why do this episode?7:30 “every hole is a goal” - mentality 8:00 pilates and yoga fixed his spine and mind13:00 challenging narratives about masculinity15:00 common erectile issues18:00 elle teaches sex to partners20:00 communication has to come from both sides25:00 examples of men’s issues30:00 vulnerability is hot and powerful35:00 why prostate orgasms feel different 40:00 SSRI advice and resources45:00 lube advice50:00 asexuality in one partner54:00 pausing or stopping during sex is a human right 1:00:00 stop putting it in my butt without asking!1:04:00 faster vs harder