Let's talk about sex baby! Sex PARTIES, that is…Sex parties, are they a common thing now? Or are they still considered ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ events that are exclusive to a VERY select community? We think we know what these parties are all about from the outside looking in, but you’re about to find out what really goes on behind the scenes. In today's episode Violet gets the inside scoop on Hollywood’s most elite members and what they do to fulfill some of their darkest fantasies. We’re still not sure if money can buy you happiness, but we have confirmed that it definitely can buy you your own 50 Shades of Grey experience.  Today’s guest Damon Lawner is the founder of world renown sex club, Snctm, a private members club hosting erotic black-tie Masquerades, dinners, and classes specializing in fetish & erotic arts. Violet and Damon dive deep into the private world of Snctm events, while also discussing celibacy, masturbation, the art of the orgasm, and how to reach your sexual nirvana. Violet makes sure to get ALL the juicy info you need to know so tune in now!THIS WEEK'S PODCAST IS BROUGHT TO YOU BY:Modern Fertility Go to http://www.modernfertility.com/adulting for $20 off your first fertility test. Just Break Up PodcastSubscribe to https://www.JustBreakUpPod.com/ for a weekly dose of love and laughs and all the relationship advice you want to hear!  What to Listen For:00:00 Introduction00:39 What is Snctm?03:38 First experiences with sex07:23 It’s a created playground to live out everything09:33 Do you find yourself to be very sexual?13:37 A lot of girls don’t orgasm through sex16:20 It’s like Cinderella’s glass slipper19:36 My kids found out about Snctm23:48 Doing some phases of celibacy25:55 “I like the person I’m slowly becoming.”29:40 Connecting with someone and giving your full self35:03 Masturbation and orgasm-drunk36:16 Your first BDSM experience?40:07 Self respect versus self-awareness47:34 We are the worst narrators of our own stories50:11 Rigorous application at Snctm55:24 The wildest parties are happening in…58:33 “I tried m*th the first time I came to the US…”01:00:33 Saying YES and NO to someone’s application01:02:28 Craziest sex stories in the club01:07:35 Sex clubs aren’t really male dominated01:10:07 Oh orgies01:14:46 “Yeah, that’s your experience.”01:18:12 Rope tying demoConnect with Damon on:InstagramSecret GardenGet more content on:@almostadulting on Instagram@violetbenson on Instagram@daddyissues_ on InstagramYouTubeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.