A former pastor speaks to her experiences in the church, and how it shaped her current online pornmaking and coaching businesses she’s growing today. Meet Nikole Mitchell and learn about her very public coming-outs.2:00 women were not allowed to lead5:00 coming out during the pandemic8:00 no shame in divorce here11:00 the gateway selfie and website15:00 creating spaces of sexuality and/or spirituality 18:00 no churchy photo shoots yet21:00 shame can be passed down w/o church25:00 i dont want to pass my shame to my kids28:00 sexual energy IRL or online31:00 dirty, awkward, clumsy, rushed34:00 on interacting with pregnant clients36:00 on the vilification of Christians 38:00 Orange County is effed, but lovely 42:00 her previous sex life45:00 purity-poster-child50:00 purity balls are cringe 52:00 how the purity movement traumatized people55:00 other Californians and culture shame about sex1:03:00 I also love lattes1:05:00 orgasm shame