55 B: A Crisis Negotiator's Guide To Difficult Conversations With Kirk Kinnell

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55 B: A Crisis Negotiator's Guide To Difficult Conversations With Kirk Kinnell

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Jan 19, 2023

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We continue our conversation with Kirk Kinnell, the former head of the crisis negotiation team for Police Scotland. For Kirk, a mature negotiation team should be humble and willing to learn from their mistakes. They should ensure that they have each other’s backs when they make mistakes instead of pointing fingers at each other because they are in it together.

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Jan 19, 2023

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55 B: A Crisis Negotiator's Guide To Difficult Conversations With Kirk Kinnell

55 B: A Crisis Negotiator's Guide To Difficult Conversations With Kirk Kinnell

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