WYALF = WYALF
By Arjen Broens
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.The vast majority of us are looking out there to find luck, success, happiness, relief and peace where all of these keys lie within ourselves: the mental state of all of these with their accompanied feelings and emotions can be called upon instantly by going nowhere.
Just stay where you are, look within, here, now, for a change and you change already by doing just so.
“Oft within ourselves the remedies do lie” William Shakespeare (England, 1564), I worn this phrase on a T-shirt for 15 years with no clue what it meant and meant to me... right in front of me.
The apparently strange title of this book is the only way to find that luck, success, happiness, relief and peace right in front of you, where you never looked for it before, like I never looked for it in front of me.
The bridge from where you are looking from for your hopes, relief, peace and the lot out there is the exact point in your life where to start from.
And all the questions that pop up of “How on earth did I get here in the first place?” and “How do I get out of here” will be answered too.
Let me be very clear from the start: this book is not passing on the old, secret Alchemist formula, the Philosophers Stone or the sword of Excalibur magic of it all. None of that. Nothing is hidden for just a few, elite, wise or apparently clever people, none of that, everyone is able to pick this up but not everyone sees it. It sits in the seeing, watching, confirming for yourself.
The Life Support System out there we call nature does not select or discriminate in any way its members on this planet.
No conspiracies, no old and secret societies, none of that has ever succeeded in ruling nature out there since the first people started to use their brain to imagine things. All have escaped into the propaganda to give you the illusion to be ruled by just a few. None has and ever will succeed in outgrowing the experimental stage of assumptions we are in as organisms, creating lasting theories describe the reality out there.
No group of people or tribe is excluded or selected to be the one to meet the founder of this all at the end of the journey. Only the idea is passed on, and a lot of people believe this lie.
No one is able to create a similar Life Support System as there is out there, right in front of us.
So, this book neither pretends to pass on the truth nor even revealing it. The hard work has to be done by yourself. It sounds worse and more dramatic than it is.
Only you can, inside yourself, by leaving the layers of i-dentity behind, where you are now. Going home.
Enjoy this book: it is about you, where you are, how you got here and where you can go. Your choice this time.
Arjen Broens
Born in The Netherlands, moved to The Highlands in Scotland on the evening of 11-11-2008, didn't look back. From Edinburgh to Inverness, living in the middle of no where, deer and nature all around.Started to look within to find what was under the false personality which, as a child, I felt, was there to cope with the world of grown ups around me from a very young age.When the 1st 3 years of my life were full on encouragement to laugh, walk, talk, pursue to experience when it all changed into correction, telling me what not to do without telling what I could do from 5 years onwards.I started to see that we all are caught in this merry-go-round, this appearance we hold up and started to write books where, in the past I had my diaries to get me through.Aikido came into my life after a few lessons Jiu-Jitsu to gain confidence where I firmly decided not to want any killing reflexes in this body I left Jiu-Jitsu for Aikido and Iaido which changed my life entirely in a very good way.Books were coming to me at the right time: NLP got me into the right mind set and bumped into it in a second hand book store during a holiday in Ireland for just under a Euro.I chose to invest 30 min each day from then on to change me into who I am: confident, unattached, competent and self assured with life, nature and animals. Pure self and learned from there to listen to my heart with my mind as a worthy advisor to what's going on out there. Thoughts are just options.Started to publish my books in 2013 after both my parents passed away on a very respectable age.Sharing my thoughts and later, my experiences without thought infecting my being, understanding thought and how it is hijacked out there from a very young age and to keep you away from your core inside: the real you you are.Enjoy my experiences in this life, written down for whoever has support by them or fall into your lap as books fell to me without a search, life just happens.Discovered that the real reality is the life support system out there: no books, no gods, no symbols, no religions, no past, no future, just nature as it is is enough, always perfectly on time although our egoic state of mind will disapprove...What Is is now and moving fast into a new now, no time to think as thinking is way to slow to get the real and exact signals, impulses into our senses.Loving what I do, doing what I love: working in construction in the heart of the Highlands, meeting great people on sites and elsewhere.Enjoy life.
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WYALF = WYALF
Arjen Broens
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Introduction to I-dentity
Those who are led by their Identity are only interested in others that are led by their identity to compare false natures, start the competition which can never be won: Coronation Street situations.
It knows that there must be flaws in the others’ role as it knows its own flaws due to the fakeness of playing the role, it works hard to cover them up by pointing fingers at the other, out there, never at themselves not realizing that when pointing one finger to others, 3 fingers are pointing at them selves....
Identity causes the anxiety you feel because you play the role of someone you are not: you have chosen to play to adapt to the pressure and change.
Identity changes all the time because of that, adaption is the thief in the background, your focus and attention its trophy, every single time.
Identity will crash in due time as you cannot prolong to not being you for long so better to prepare for your nakedness because it will happen, nothing true will stay hidden. Most of the times they crash on someone’s deathbed, realizing final departure, the mind wants to clean the sheet prior to being dissolved at the last breath.
Awakening always happens with a shift because the identity can only deflate to disintegrate: the structure called mind does not give in and up that easily because of dependencies of the outside and the emotional bond you have with that identity: It’s me you are talking about here!
, extremely personal and intimate. I, me, mine is very personal and therefore never investigated or challenged. To scary to study, it seems, as long as you want acknowledgment from the outside, yes, that is scary to leave that game.
Awakening is awakening out of the sleep of personhood, identity, no longer interested in personhood, lay off the role, the act, the identity, which is false and superficial, everyone can see that but most of us are happy to point out the fakeness in others, not theirs. Most people really should have been actors instead of anything else, they are great at it, natural, creating their master play called My Life
.
But then again, if we all were actors, who’s play can we go to see in this crowded house.
So, which is your favourite personality? Can that veil be you? Have a look, dare to look behind the curtains, have the courage to find a far more solid, less shouting foundation in you.
Lay off that favourite personality for sure as you identify with that very strongly: that also, isn't you and being your favourite is not very helpful, so get rid of that favourite famous, most liked one first, not easy.
I needs to dispose of I-dentity, then I remains, pure, uncontaminated, unconditioned, free of any burden from the past, let go of this bag on your shoulders, enough dragging and not getting there.
Ridicule and agitate the mind structure without comparing and competition and with true facts, reality: got to laugh about how serious it takes itself and how superficial it actually is, lacking all the control it thinks it has, it is an inflated balloon of be-LIE-ves.
In awakening, the presence, the position you have in What Is, is burning the identities, presence burns through falseness, ignorance and illusion because identities do not last, burns right through the biggest ignorance.
Ego does not last as a main feature, presence lasts because it is naturally you, no circus.
It takes effort to awaken, to lay off all the old coats, but being who you are is totally effortless, natural, in balance with What Is because you are not acting anymore.
Language by its source, supports only duality (left brain side: logic, egocentric) and therefore impossible to describe or explain (right side, intuition, creativity) non-dual items and processes like yourself in any words, like awakening, like affiliation to your identity.
Me, my and mine is possessive, indicates a possession, who is the possessor and therefore, who are you?
My mind
indicates that the mind is not your main being, is added to you, is separate from you, cannot be the totality of you as you call it your possession. So, what is the totality of you, who are you, without your mind, without the external referencing?
Sometimes the structure called mind claims the awakening: I got it, I got it
and the indicator here is that when attraction, rejection, comparing, competition, agitation and manipulation remains present, even in the miniscule shape, the mind is too, still at the very helm of it, Isness or no Isness, still here.
I, pure and uncontaminated, without the identities and personalities, has no needs, does not want anything, has no form, no gender, no classification, no boundaries, no attachments, no requirements and therefore, no tension.
The quick checks: is my personality, my dependency of being liked, being appreciated, still there, how little, then mind is at work. You, the pure you, has no requirements, our ego does have them.
Thinking, the thought and the thinker are one.
Reading, the reader and what is read are one.
Seeing,