The Difference between Must and Want Do

By Arjen Broens

Have you ever had the experience of doing something with no clue why but it needs doing and everything is in sync whilst you are doing it? Flowing.

Or the other occasion where you really wanted something and you were completely ready for it but it just was not happening, as if something was constantly sabotaging what you really want.

This book goes into this difference: between a must and a want to. The characteristics and origins of both.

To be able to keep on track of your direction, without the sabotaging backgrounds, you need to look into these two attitudes in yourself to distinguish the minute differences in signals that announce either the sabotaging or the effortless realization of synchronicities, going along with what is really needed.

To be able to sense the indicators of meaningful coincidences, your attachment to your thoughts and its outcome needs to be absent: not trying to fight for your goal nor to go with any stimulus that is thrown at you.
You have to go in between, into the option never mentioned: you have got to be here, now, with the control of your attention direction, with all you’ve got and you’ve been there before, a long time ago.

A state of effortless alignment with what is, is changing all the time and is the only way to keep track of your path, your very usefulness for this very moment to whatever needs done without the full comprehending of your actions: the why comes later, in hindsight, it always does, with no weight or regrets.

Exchange the superficiality with essence, to that what really matters.

To be able to act from your heart with no residue and regret, to live effortlessly, the difference between a must and a want to is essential, to find and follow the right triggers and indicators.

To waste no more time to want, starts right here.

Enjoy, let’s go home, in yourself, to stay, this time.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Arjen Broens
• Release date: Jan 4, 2023
• ISBN: 9798215791080

Arjen Broens

Born in The Netherlands, moved to The Highlands in Scotland on the evening of 11-11-2008, didn't look back. From Edinburgh to Inverness, living in the middle of no where, deer and nature all around.Started to look within to find what was under the false personality which, as a child, I felt, was there to cope with the world of grown ups around me from a very young age.When the 1st 3 years of my life were full on encouragement to laugh, walk, talk, pursue to experience when it all changed into correction, telling me what not to do without telling what I could do from 5 years onwards.I started to see that we all are caught in this merry-go-round, this appearance we hold up and started to write books where, in the past I had my diaries to get me through.Aikido came into my life after a few lessons Jiu-Jitsu to gain confidence where I firmly decided not to want any killing reflexes in this body I left Jiu-Jitsu for Aikido and Iaido which changed my life entirely in a very good way.Books were coming to me at the right time: NLP got me into the right mind set and bumped into it in a second hand book store during a holiday in Ireland for just under a Euro.I chose to invest 30 min each day from then on to change me into who I am: confident, unattached, competent and self assured with life, nature and animals. Pure self and learned from there to listen to my heart with my mind as a worthy advisor to what's going on out there. Thoughts are just options.Started to publish my books in 2013 after both my parents passed away on a very respectable age.Sharing my thoughts and later, my experiences without thought infecting my being, understanding thought and how it is hijacked out there from a very young age and to keep you away from your core inside: the real you you are.Enjoy my experiences in this life, written down for whoever has support by them or fall into your lap as books fell to me without a search, life just happens.Discovered that the real reality is the life support system out there: no books, no gods, no symbols, no religions, no past, no future, just nature as it is is enough, always perfectly on time although our egoic state of mind will disapprove...What Is is now and moving fast into a new now, no time to think as thinking is way to slow to get the real and exact signals, impulses into our senses.Loving what I do, doing what I love: working in construction in the heart of the Highlands, meeting great people on sites and elsewhere.Enjoy life.

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