Objection

By Arjen Broens

This book is about resisting reality.

We all do it and know that we just don’t accept what is right in front of us. We keep projecting this life we think we live and continue the struggle.

For what? Whom does it serve? This phantom called Ego perhaps? This better person that I just cannot become?

Have you ever delved deeper into this matter? If not, it might be time to explore your capabilities to the fullest, lay down these old habits to get the best out of you, this I.

The life long adaption to others, blending in, not upsetting as a rule where the ones that put the rules forward, upset you mostly in your directions, your growth, in the name of care.

This book also reveals the other side of thought: what if it is all just a bunch of possibilities, options and opportunities to play with until you act and Create instead of reaCt and follow?

What if this is all superficial and of little value and your true being has the key to your happiness, not this becoming which pushes the trophies away every time you get closer to your goal.

Is the definition of your success not this ever-changing attic where an achievement is announcing just another level, again and again. Never satisfied, never enough.

Until your stop and look into this, this I you seem to be dragging with you all your life as a stumbling block, more and more in your way the further you get in life.

We are trained in a stubborn habit of becoming which is in the way of your happiness, here and now, this being you are.

Enjoy this journey into yourself, the real you this time.

Much to explore and loads to find out with the right insights this time, yours, all this book does and can do, like any other book, is show you the door.

Enjoy.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Arjen Broens
• Release date: May 31, 2023
• ISBN: 9798215319154

Arjen Broens

Born in The Netherlands, moved to The Highlands in Scotland on the evening of 11-11-2008, didn't look back. From Edinburgh to Inverness, living in the middle of no where, deer and nature all around.Started to look within to find what was under the false personality which, as a child, I felt, was there to cope with the world of grown ups around me from a very young age.When the 1st 3 years of my life were full on encouragement to laugh, walk, talk, pursue to experience when it all changed into correction, telling me what not to do without telling what I could do from 5 years onwards.I started to see that we all are caught in this merry-go-round, this appearance we hold up and started to write books where, in the past I had my diaries to get me through.Aikido came into my life after a few lessons Jiu-Jitsu to gain confidence where I firmly decided not to want any killing reflexes in this body I left Jiu-Jitsu for Aikido and Iaido which changed my life entirely in a very good way.Books were coming to me at the right time: NLP got me into the right mind set and bumped into it in a second hand book store during a holiday in Ireland for just under a Euro.I chose to invest 30 min each day from then on to change me into who I am: confident, unattached, competent and self assured with life, nature and animals. Pure self and learned from there to listen to my heart with my mind as a worthy advisor to what's going on out there. Thoughts are just options.Started to publish my books in 2013 after both my parents passed away on a very respectable age.Sharing my thoughts and later, my experiences without thought infecting my being, understanding thought and how it is hijacked out there from a very young age and to keep you away from your core inside: the real you you are.Enjoy my experiences in this life, written down for whoever has support by them or fall into your lap as books fell to me without a search, life just happens.Discovered that the real reality is the life support system out there: no books, no gods, no symbols, no religions, no past, no future, just nature as it is is enough, always perfectly on time although our egoic state of mind will disapprove...What Is is now and moving fast into a new now, no time to think as thinking is way to slow to get the real and exact signals, impulses into our senses.Loving what I do, doing what I love: working in construction in the heart of the Highlands, meeting great people on sites and elsewhere.Enjoy life.

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Objection

Arjen Broens

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To object has nothing to do with an object, an unreferenced thing, just present but not judged, where the verb to object, which is subjective in its core, has everything to do with judgment and denial, denial of the current situation, whether you like it or not, it is happening but you don’t like it or don’t want it as it does not fit in your projection, the way you think you are going.

But that is not based on reality, it is based on just imagination, predictions based on your past and your body’s emotions telling you It is happening! as your body’s reference is exactly that which you project. It has no other way to go by.

It seems to me that to object is to create an object out of something imaginary, to objectify, turning nothing into objects, thoughts into material things, imaginary ideas locked into objects, brought as facts.

Dreams are the objectifications of random thoughts, neurons connecting at random: flying all over the place to find ground in you to harvest attention and keep it there, or to direct you elsewhere: why did I think that? becomes a rare but necessary question if you start to look into yourself, this system that runs on autopilot with the past as its reference, not able to take new ideas and directions in consideration.

This autopilot in you needs questioning: where did that come from? should be a great way to investigate but the majority backs off at this point, just continuing the show, this play called My Life with you as the protagonist, this I doing its thing, just anticipating and adapting with Doing your Best as its main motto in your life, with the outside as your reference.

Let’s delve into this more.

Have a look, inside this amazing machine called our brain, this thinking things out, munching on concepts whilst life, out there, right under your feet, is already happening, continuing in another direction, with no means or need to influence you, knowing that it is the only thing that really is, the rest is just imagination, prediction based on the past, dragging your old stuff around with you like a chained ball to a prisoner.

This comparison is not far off, by the way, as your comfort-zone, this state of obedience, adaption and choosing camps to avoid the ructions, not to rock the boat too much, blending in, is our conditioning: this program from the past, set to repeat in ourselves to join the imaginary queues of To Become and not To Be.

You are not responsible for your programming, your conditioning, you’re 100% responsible to fix it in you, in this life. Replace your app, it is out of date and certainly out of use. Time for an update as it is pretty old.

As to be, is here now, whatever nature throws at you, you will be able to deal with that, as you have always done in your life. Look back and be honest, truthful and clear to yourself, just yourself, no one else can, is able to and will judge you but yourself.

You’re not able to judge yourself if you are using your past as a reference either, no one can if you look at it in detail: their reference has nothing to do with you, certainly not your past. Past is gone, now is here, the future is pending, continuously.

The objection to What Is and is already happening, is the decoy for the mind to not get exposed in us, this running old program that is not yours anyhow. We’ve switched it on auto pilot to cope at a very young age and we’re still running this.

Every single time you object, you reference the current situation to a projected shape or form and find reality not in line with that projection and therefore, you object, you decline reality which, in my view, is a bit ludicrous: why reject or decline something which is already happening, right in front of you and me and we’re trying to fit it into an imaginary plan?

There seems to be not much sense in that.

Check the foundation of your rejection, what is it based on? Is it still valid to run this old program?

With the objection comes the unease and unsettlement not getting what you want, feeling uncomfortable and upset but what is its origin really? Where does the upsetness start? Does it not start with the unacceptance