The Art To Disappoint

By Arjen Broens

From the point where you find that you are disappointing someone till the actual recovery of it is quite a long journey and will drain all the energy levels you felt before you even started to enter the domain of Disappointment.

This booklet explains the pros and cons of disappointment and the relative existence of it: the actual disappointment, which is based fully on the expectation and the valuation of each other, collapses completely if you learn how to tackle these in yourself and in the person you are going to disappoint.

To disappoint is an art where you yourself actually are very able to actively move someone else through the process of mourning and change and pave the way to a whole new situation called The Here After, meaning after the whole thing called disappointment is done and over with of course.

As soon as the value of your own existence fully depends on what others think of you, this book might just give you the opportunity to learn how to cope with disappointment as a whole because disappointment, in this stage of existence, will be regularly on your path I’m afraid.

The recognition of valuation and expectation in your life and the awareness of it are the key values you are about to master here and the devastating effect of these two on your own life will take you to a point where you can see that disappointment is merely a tool (and not a life blocking instance) used by many to virtually control the world around them.

Virtually because their own behavior is disappointing exactly the same way as the truly honest person will disappoint by just being truthful.
It’s a matter of the hen and the egg to be sure where the origin of disappointment started off in the beginning of mankind but surely it will be regarded as the devils act to bring disappointment into the world. But alas, it is just as human as the feeling of flow.

The weight of disappointment is brought to a level where it can only lose its mind, literally spoken that is, because actually, disappointment does not exist as I will point out in this essay. It’s an illusion as perfect as a marvelous painting by Rembrandt or Dali but then made by the artist called you.

Being from an origin where disappointment was about to be at par with the utmost sin, I’m quite sure that my experiences on this matter will interest you and could even be helpful.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Arjen Broens
• Release date: Nov 20, 2022
• ISBN: 9781005635015

Arjen Broens

Born in The Netherlands, moved to The Highlands in Scotland on the evening of 11-11-2008, didn't look back. From Edinburgh to Inverness, living in the middle of no where, deer and nature all around.Started to look within to find what was under the false personality which, as a child, I felt, was there to cope with the world of grown ups around me from a very young age.When the 1st 3 years of my life were full on encouragement to laugh, walk, talk, pursue to experience when it all changed into correction, telling me what not to do without telling what I could do from 5 years onwards.I started to see that we all are caught in this merry-go-round, this appearance we hold up and started to write books where, in the past I had my diaries to get me through.Aikido came into my life after a few lessons Jiu-Jitsu to gain confidence where I firmly decided not to want any killing reflexes in this body I left Jiu-Jitsu for Aikido and Iaido which changed my life entirely in a very good way.Books were coming to me at the right time: NLP got me into the right mind set and bumped into it in a second hand book store during a holiday in Ireland for just under a Euro.I chose to invest 30 min each day from then on to change me into who I am: confident, unattached, competent and self assured with life, nature and animals. Pure self and learned from there to listen to my heart with my mind as a worthy advisor to what's going on out there. Thoughts are just options.Started to publish my books in 2013 after both my parents passed away on a very respectable age.Sharing my thoughts and later, my experiences without thought infecting my being, understanding thought and how it is hijacked out there from a very young age and to keep you away from your core inside: the real you you are.Enjoy my experiences in this life, written down for whoever has support by them or fall into your lap as books fell to me without a search, life just happens.Discovered that the real reality is the life support system out there: no books, no gods, no symbols, no religions, no past, no future, just nature as it is is enough, always perfectly on time although our egoic state of mind will disapprove...What Is is now and moving fast into a new now, no time to think as thinking is way to slow to get the real and exact signals, impulses into our senses.Loving what I do, doing what I love: working in construction in the heart of the Highlands, meeting great people on sites and elsewhere.Enjoy life.

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