You have massive power through your words and what you speak over your kids will impact their view of themselves. If you find yourself saying negative 'you are lazy, you are driving me crazy...' statements to your kids when you feel frustrated or upset: This episode is for you.In this episode you will learn:How to speak positive 'you are....' statements to your kids to encourage positive behavior Questions to ask your kids to teach them self controlHow to focus on the heart instead of behavior modification How to understand what is underneath negative behavior and get to the root of thatDana Che Williams is a speaker, marriage and relationship coach, and the host of the Real Relationship Talk podcast. She is also a devoted daughter and friend of God and serves as a Teaching Pastor at a multi-site, multi-ethnic church in Virginia Beach, VA. Her mission is to help lead people into more fruitful and connected relationships with the Lord and each other. She has been married for 25 years and has 4 children.Connect with Dana:Website | Podcast | Instagram | FacebookFree: Meditative affirmationWhat I'm loving:Infinity CubeListen to related episodes:142: Saying things you regret later? How to control your tongue when you feel angry82: Is your mom rage out of control? My experience with mom rage and how to deal with mom guilt60: Don't underestimate the power of your words. How to use that strength to leave a healthy legacy ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Next Steps: 1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame ⬇️2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program ⬇️3. Book a Call if you are want support in overcoming damaging anger patterns. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.comContact: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.comQuestions? Form / Voice memo **Shop my favorite Amazon Products**“I love this Podcast so much! I don’t feel alone anymore!” ← if that sounds like you, please consider rating and reviewing my show! This helps me support more Christian mamas, just like you, on their motherhood journey. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know what you loved most about the episode!