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Pause & Reset Your Body

Pause & Reset Your Body

FromBecome A Calm Mama


Pause & Reset Your Body

FromBecome A Calm Mama

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Length:
29 minutes
Released:
Mar 24, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

In this episode, I'm' talking about how (and why) to pause & reset your body when you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed.  And why it's so important!I’m sure you’ve had some really tough moments over the past few weeks. Moments when you’ve been stuck in what I call Mad Mom Syndrome.You know what I'm talking about -Moments when your child is a bit off track and you get upset and all of a sudden you are yelling, threatening and lecturing…followed by guilt and rushed apologies.Moments you are worried that the behavior you see in the present is a predictor of the future and you act super strict and controlling.Moments when you are frustrated and say a snide or mean remark to your kid.Those types of moments are a clue that you are in your stress cycle and feeling emotionally overwhelmed.You become super reactive and respond to your children with stress, anxiety, frustration or anger. The rage kicks in, your body takes over and you do all sorts of yelling.Or, instead of exploding, you implode and check out with a cold icy stare at your kid.When this surge of stress juice ends, you start to feel calmer and think more clearly…But if you showed up as a 'mad mom', you probably also end up feeling bad and beating yourself up for not being calm. Today I’m helping you understand why this happens in the first place and what you can do to reset when you feel the stress starting to take over.You'll Learn:Why ‘mad mom’ moments really happen (it’s not just about your kid’s behavior)The one tool you need to shift from stressed and reactive to CALMThe benefits of taking a Pause BreakWhy you need to move your body to quiet your mindPractical actions you can take to reset your body quickly, in the momentWhat to say to your kids when you lose your coolFree Resources:Get your copy of the Stop Yelling Cheat Sheet at https://www.calmmamacoaching.com/stopyelling. In this free guide you’ll discover:✨ A simple tool to stop yelling once you’ve started (This one thing will get you calm.)✨ 40 things to do instead of yelling. (You only need to pick one!)✨ Exactly why you yell. (And how to stop yourself from starting.)✨A script to say to your kids when you yell. (So they don't follow you around!)Want to connect? Follow me on Instagram @darlynnchildress Book a free consultation session
Released:
Mar 24, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

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Become a Calm Mama is a parenting podcast where you learn practical parenting tools and strategies so you can stop yelling, feel more calm, and show up as the mom you want to be. Darlynn is the top parenting coach for moms who want to know exactly how to handle misbehavior and create a peaceful home. Darlynn is known for her practical strategies and a down to earth understanding of what it’s really like to be a mom raising kids in the 21st century. Over the past 14 years, Darlynn has dedicated her life to becoming the mom she wanted to be for my kids. In that process, she created a parenting model called “The Calm Mama Process” that helped her navigate every tricky parenting moment that’s been thrown her way. From hitting to bullying, from toddler meltdowns to teenage shenanigans, from missing assignments to college admissions, from getting kids to bed to getting kids out of bed, from kids not wanting to get out of the bath to middle schoolers that don’t want to take a shower, from kids fighting in the car to kids who drive their own car, she’s seen it all. Darlynn has taught her model to hundreds of moms since 2015 and when they apply the Calm Mama Process to their tricky parenting moments they have calm and peace in their homes. Their kids' behavior improves, their relationship with their children gets so much better, and they enjoy motherhood (most of the time!). Darlynn teaches her process inside her coaching program, Calm Mama School, a lifetime membership program where you learn how to master your reactivity, teach kids how to manage their big feelings, and set limits that work. Each week she brings practical and simple strategies to the podcast so you can stop yelling and create a peaceful home.