It’s often very easy for us to see what we believe other people are doing “wrong” in their own lives. It’s also often clear what we like or don’t like about the people who are in our lives. It’s not often easy for us to admit when we are part of the problem in our relationships or in commitments.   Why? Because truthfully, no matter how much healing you’ve done, no one enjoys admitting their faults. It’s tough (and brave) work! But there’s so much power in admitting where you need to shift, because you can’t control everyone else but you can control a lot of what you say, do, and commit to.   Share with me, how are you learning to be honest with yourself about “when it’s you”? Share your thoughts on this episode with me and tag me @yasminecheyenne on Instagram.   My book, The Sugar Jar, is available for pre-order! And while you wait for your book  to arrive, I’ve created a 4 part course to help you continue your healing journey now.  Click Here to get your copy!