We have a choice of what kind of life we want to live, emotionally.  We can believe we are a victim of our circumstances or we take responsibility to feel anyway we want to feel.  When we play victim, we lose all control of living the life we want to live.  When we take responsibility for what we can control, our thoughts and feelings, we determine the outcome of our lives.  This episode teaches you the difference between emotional childhood, where you are the victim, and emotional adulthood, where you are the "captain" of your life.  It's no wonder most of us feel like victims to our circumstances because no one ever taught us how feelings are created.  It's a game changer to know that it's your responsibility to fulfill your own needs, and not be dependent on others to do it for you.Have you received my new resource "3 Steps To Be Yourself Around Your Adult Children?" Click HERE to receive it. You'll be amazed what life offers you when you take back the power to be yourself around everyone.Have you ever considered 1:1 coaching? To get started, book a call with me to find out how coaching can help you. I offer an 8 week coaching program where I help you practice seeing things from a perspective and thinking new thoughts that result in you living a more peaceful life with your adult children. Go to bonnielyman.com (click here) to book a call.