Our brains do not like change.  So it hangs on tight to thoughts that often times don't serve us. They hang onto thoughts that want us to keep believing that when our adult children make choices contrary to our values, they are making the wrong choice.  But maybe exercising their agency the very way they choose to, offers them opportunities to figure out who they want to be in this life.  Our job is not to judge them because judgement only brings pain to us.....Our job is to figure out who we want to be.  Do we want to be the parent that unconditionally loves despite our children's behavior;  like the Savior loves us despite our behavior?  Tune in to learn why "it's all good"I help moms navigate life with their adult children.  If you want to know more about me go to bonnielyman.com to book a consult with me, sign up for my weekly email, and/or receive my free resource on three ways to connect with your adult children,.You can also follow me on or DM me on Instagram @bonnielymancoaching.Questions?  Suggestions for podcast topics.  Email me at bonnie@bonnielyman.com Have you received my new resource "3 Steps To Be Yourself Around Your Adult Children?" Click HERE to receive it. You'll be amazed what life offers you when you take back the power to be yourself around everyone.Have you ever considered 1:1 coaching? To get started, book a call with me to find out how coaching can help you. I offer an 8 week coaching program where I help you practice seeing things from a perspective and thinking new thoughts that result in you living a more peaceful life with your adult children. Go to bonnielyman.com (click here) to book a call.