Do you say yes every time your adult children ask you to watch their kids?  Are you afraid if you say no they will be mad at you?  Or your grandkids won't like you as much as the other grandma?  If so you might be what we call a "people pleaser".  I like to please people, especially my family members but not at my expense.  Listen to find out how to know when to say yes and when to say no when someone makes a request of you.  Saying yes out of fear or insecurity is different than saying yes from self love and love.Have you received my new resource "3 Steps To Be Yourself Around Your Adult Children?" Click HERE to receive it. You'll be amazed what life offers you when you take back the power to be yourself around everyone.Have you ever considered 1:1 coaching? To get started, book a call with me to find out how coaching can help you. I offer an 8 week coaching program where I help you practice seeing things from a perspective and thinking new thoughts that result in you living a more peaceful life with your adult children. Go to bonnielyman.com (click here) to book a call.