Stop letting blind people proofread your mission.Listening to everybody else and letting blind people proofread my vision. What I mean by that is going and asking your best friend and your mama and your husband and everything else about what you want to do in business. And also just paying attention to everyone around you, instead of actually. Focusing on your vision and your calling and what you really honestly want to do. And getting super, super clear on you. I guess my biggest achievement after I figured out that mistake was really finding one or two key people to pay attention to, to learn from, and actually not just pay attention blindly, like in the background, the actually get to know them and really trust who was giving me counsel and wisdom.So not really scrolling on social media is a big one. And another one is if I do happen to come across someone I have a really big gift of discernment. I am just one of those people that can immediately tell in my gut if someone's genuine or not. so I just listened to them for a few minutes and I can tell really quickly, like if they're dishonest or not really genuine, if they're coming from a different place and that's just me personally, I just have that gift. Also how they communicate with their audience, if it's someone who I call it, farting and Darden, and I know that's like really funny, but if they pop something in a Facebook group and then skedaddle, and then people are commenting and they never come back and interact with those people or engage with those people like that, to me, just shows that you're really just showing up to seek approval. You’re not showing up to actually serve right.My heart really wanted to serve, but I was just putting so much on my plate where I actually couldn't start. I, it became a here's me look what I'm doing. I'm here. To show up, type things. It was like I was going in a room farting and then running before anyone. So I was like partying and darting. so when I got really close with my containers and I started really paying attention and really simplifying where I was showing up to serve that got a lot easier. one of the things that I realized is we'll talk about belief shifting content. Is that in my own belief? I thought when I show up. The people in my space. Also, I wanted them to act a certain way.CTFAR methodOmnipresence doesn't work without depth or at the sacrifice of yourself. a lot of people fall into that kind of manipulation mask as serving an event or circumstance will happen. And if neutral, like everything is neutral until you have a thought about it. And then that thought will cause you to feel a certain way. And then because we feel a certain way, you're going to take certain actions. And then those actions are going to drive the results. A circumstance is a fact you can't change it. So let's say it's raining outside. Like I can't go out and do anything I can be inside and I can be super productive. So I would have feeling. And then a lot of people operate as the circumstance or the event that happens and they have a feeling about it. And then because they have a feeling they'll take certain actions and then those actions will cause a result. So if you ever want a different result, you're going to go to your thought about it. I was trying to make decisions because I thought the emotion was going to come from the decision that I made. It was going to come from the actions that I made, but really it comes from the thought. I realized that when I worked in the Ctfar method, I was always trying to put my thoughts, my beliefs into someone else's model.So then I would get frustrated. And I remember my coach literally said to me, what you making them not are buying your program mean about you. But because I was having those thoughts, I was putting my worth. Into someone else's hands. And the way that I visited my work was if they bought my service or not, because I thought my service was a part of me. So I was literally thinking I