A short note from Robyn...This episode is a recording of a social media post and a post I made in The Club a while back.Loving someone who is held captive by toxic shame is so so hard.  I hope this short episode gives you a little understanding of toxic shame and self-hatred, as well as a few practical ideas about how to be with a child who is stuck in a pit of toxic shame.The Club On-Demand Video Library houses a three-part video training on the neurobiology of toxic shame.The Club is OPEN for New Members! Sept. 27 - Oct. 4, 2022!Come join this unique community of parents who get it.  They get you and they get what it's like to parent a child with a vulnerable nervous system and big, baffling behaviors.We're saving your seat :) https://robyngobbel.com/theclub *******The Club is a virtual community for the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors and the professionals who support them.    https://robyngobbel.com/theclubApplications for the 2023 cohort of Being With ~ a year-long immersive and holistic program for parenting professionals ~ are now open!  https://robyngobbel.com/beingwith