You've heard me say "Changing How We See People Changes People."  Let's talk about how I know this is true.  It helps us understand why understanding the theory is a 'technique' and why staying regulated 'is a technique' that creates real, true change.  We come to know who we are through the eyes of the other.  Let's teach our children they are precious and full of infinite worth.  Even when their behaviors are difficult.In the episode, I reference episode 2- No Behavior is Maladaptive- as well as a blog article by the same name.  You can read that blog article here: https://robyngobbel.com/maladaptiveThe free video series and e-book on Trauma, Memory, and Behavior is here: https://robyngobbel.com/videoseriesYou can watch the free masterclass on Regulation, Connection, and Felt-Safety here: https://robyngobbel.com/masterclassCLICK HERE to read about The Club and join the waitlist for the next time we welcome new members*****Not sure where to start?  With 100 episodes, it's hard to know what episodes to listen to first!The START HERE private podcast takes the guess-work out.  I curated the 10 episodes I think you should listen to first. Because it's a special private podcast, It's only available by invitation- so head over to RobynGobbel.com/StartHere to get yours.  You'll then be able to listen in whatever podcast player you use! *******The Club is a virtual community for the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors and the professionals who support them.    https://robyngobbel.com/theclubApplications for the 2023 cohort of Being With ~ a year-long immersive and holistic program for parenting professionals ~ are now open!  https://robyngobbel.com/beingwith