Hear me out....If I were in charge of giving out superpowers for parents, especially parents of kids with a history of trauma, I'd give you x-ray vision.Attachment research is clear about the power of x-ray vision (except they call is reflective functioning and mentalizing).  It is a powerful ingredient of secure attachment.In today's episode we will explore what kinds of things x-ray vision would tell us about our children and their behaviors and why it matters.It matters.  A lot.  Seeing through behaviors to what's underneath is one of the most important skills you could have as a parent!Since I'm not in charge of hanging out superpowers (yet) we'll have to settle for continued blogs, podcasts, and courses that help you put on your own x-ray vision goggles to see what's underneath your child's behaviors!***********************Would you rather read about X-Ray vision goggles?  Head over to my blog! https://robyngobbel.com/xrayvision/Wonder what all this talk is about Regulation, Connection, and Felt-Safety?  Watch my free masterclass!  https://robyngobbel.com/masterclassUnderstanding the impact of trauma on memory will also help you put on your x-ray vision goggles for some of those most baffling behaviors!  Check our my free video series and ebook: https://robyngobbel.com/videoseriesReady to dive deeper and practice putting on those x-ray vision goggles while also getting practical tools on how to create behavior change through regulation, connection, and felt-safety?  Parenting after Trauma: Minding the Heart and Brain is a comprehensive online parent course  https://robyngobbel.com/parentcourse*****Not sure where to start?  With 100 episodes, it's hard to know what episodes to listen to first!The START HERE private podcast takes the guess-work out.  I curated the 10 episodes I think you should listen to first. Because it's a special private podcast, It's only available by invitation- so head over to RobynGobbel.com/StartHere to get yours.  You'll then be able to listen in whatever podcast player you use! *******The Club is a virtual community for the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors and the professionals who support them.    https://robyngobbel.com/theclubApplications for the 2023 cohort of Being With ~ a year-long immersive and holistic program for parenting professionals ~ are now open!  https://robyngobbel.com/beingwith