Every day, I connect with parents in my inbox, in social media, in The Club who are struggling and confused by conflicting parenting advice.Parenting kids with big baffling behaviors is nothing if it’s not extremely confusing.And when experts give conflicting advice, it’s extra confusing.Parent experts who only teach “what to do” don’t solve the real problem.I know it might sound exhausting but the only person who can become an expert at your kid is you.Learn from the experts.  But learn the science of behavior.  Learn the why.  When you know the why, when you understand what behavior really is and the science of safety, you’ll be able to figure out how to approach any behavior.Read a long summary of this episode here:  https://robyngobbel.com/nomoreparentexpertsOver on my website you can find:Masterclass on What Behavior Really Is (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)In depth parent course: Parenting after Trauma: Minding the Heart and BrainCLICK HERE to read about The Club and join the waitlist for the next time we welcome new members*****Not sure where to start?  With 100 episodes, it's hard to know what episodes to listen to first!The START HERE private podcast takes the guess-work out.  I curated the 10 episodes I think you should listen to first. Because it's a special private podcast, It's only available by invitation- so head over to RobynGobbel.com/StartHere to get yours.  You'll then be able to listen in whatever podcast player you use! *******The Club is a virtual community for the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors and the professionals who support them.    https://robyngobbel.com/theclubApplications for the 2023 cohort of Being With ~ a year-long immersive and holistic program for parenting professionals ~ are now open!  https://robyngobbel.com/beingwith