Marshall Lyles is one of my favorite humans on the planet.  How did I get so lucky as to call him one of my closest friends, as well as a dear colleague who enjoys the creation process with me.Marshall is a dad, a therapist, a creator.  We met and connected over our love for supporting the families of kids impacted by trauma, but our relationship has grown into so much more.Marshall is one of those humans who can combine deep thinking with deep humor.  He isn't afraid of asking the hard questions but he intuitively knows how to infuse delight into just the right moments.  In this episode, Marshall and I discuss the importance of our ability to be reflective as parents and as people- meaning, our ability to think about ourselves and how we are impacting our children and how they show up in the world.  There is a certain amount of awe in realizing that our children come to know themselves largely because of who we show them they are.  And our capacity to do that in the truest most authentic way is largely dependent upon our ability to be reflective with ourselves and how allllllll the previous generations have impacted us and how we see ourselves.  It sounds heavy I know but Marshall's gift is taking the heavy and bringing in ease.  And humor.You'll love this episode, promise.When you're done, go find Marshall!!!  www.MarshallLyles.com as well as the amazing, one-of-a-kind workshop in Austin, TX at The Therapists Workshop.********************Be sure to watch my F R E E masterclass on What Behaviors Really Are...and How to Fix Them (this is the same masterclass, just renamed, as the Regulation, Connection, Felt-Safety Masterclass).  https://robyngobbel.com/masterclass*****Not sure where to start?  With 100 episodes, it's hard to know what episodes to listen to first!The START HERE private podcast takes the guess-work out.  I curated the 10 episodes I think you should listen to first. Because it's a special private podcast, It's only available by invitation- so head over to RobynGobbel.com/StartHere to get yours.  You'll then be able to listen in whatever podcast player you use! *******The Club is a virtual community for the families of kids with big, baffling behaviors and the professionals who support them.    https://robyngobbel.com/theclubApplications for the 2023 cohort of Being With ~ a year-long immersive and holistic program for parenting professionals ~ are now open!  https://robyngobbel.com/beingwith