Deliberate Deafness Gaining a Mastery Over the Art of Preventing External Pressure

By Sensei Paul David

Deliberate Deafness is a self-help book written to help you get proven tips that can help you handle destructive and constructive criticism. It is also packed with useful ha

• Language: English
• Publisher: senseipublishing.com
• Release date: May 10, 2024
• ISBN: 9781778488368

Sensei Paul David

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Chapter One:

How To Handle Destructive Criticism

A destructive critic criticizes you to bring you down. You cannot avoid such people as long as you are striving for excellence and you desire to achieve remarkable milestones. After all, people only throw stones at ripe mangoes. In this chapter, we will explore how you can handle destructive critics and their venom.

Detecting The Motive

You must be able to tell the difference between a destructive and constructive critic because they are usually similar. This similarity is because we naturally do not want to be criticized. We prefer to be praised and told that we are making progress. Still, constructive criticism is helpful. Therefore, it is vital that you can tell between a destructive critic and a constructive one.

The most important difference between a destructive critic and a constructive critic is their motive. A constructive critic points out your faults to help you improve while a destructive critic emphasizes your weaknesses to rubbish your achievement. Usually, such people aim to prove to your loved ones and fans that you are not such a big deal.

Some of the characteristics of destructive criticism are:

Tips For Handling Destructive Criticism

Once you discover that a person is a destructive critic, you must know what to do. The tips below will help you in this regard:

Just Listen

Whether criticism is destructive or constructive, one of the biggest mistakes you can make is to respond. Of course, it is not always easy because we have a natural tendency to speak more than we listen. Yet, you must have the self-control to listen more than you talk. It is one of the signs of maturity. You may not like what the person is saying but you have to keep your