How we can use self-compassion to reduce rumination, feel safe while taking big risks, and improve our relationships with other people. Dr. Hanson and Forrest also explore what makes self-compassion different from self-pity or being on your own side.Sponsor Message: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.If you'd like to start making real, positive changes to your brain and your life, but you don't have a lot of extra time, then you may want to check out Rick Hanson's new program: Just One Minute. Use the code BEINGWELL at checkout for 10% off the purchase price.Connect with the show:Visit us on the webFollow us on InstagramFollow Rick on FacebookFollow Forrest on FacebookSubscribe on iTunesThe material in this podcast comes in large part from our book Resilient: How to Grow an Unshakable Core of Calm, Strength, and Happiness. If you like the podcast, you'll love the book!Timestamps:0:15: What are the benefits of self-compassion?1:30: How is self-compassion different from "being on your own side"?1:55: What's the difference between self-compassion and self-pity?2:30: How can we be compassionate to ourselves without coming across like a complainer?4:20: The fastest way to get people to stop talking AT you.5:55: Using self-compassion to fight rumination8:15: The function of rumination: avoiding a dreaded experience.11:00: How to become more self-compassionate.16:53: Summary and ending.